Just a thought...

I find myself asking if this is worth it... If i dont feel like i will marry someone is it worth is to date them?  I would hope it would be a yes. You dont just find yourself compelled to a person for no reason... companionship is vital in life... but is that all life is about? if you have no friends you are lonely. if you have no significant other you are lonely still. a significant other doesnt necessarily have to be your future attachment. you dont have to get married. they dont have to be the only one you can ever love. i believe a person can be in love more than once. i believe in soul mates, but i also believe one can have more than just one soul mate. people may never find their soul mates but maybe those people are meant to be independent and fend for themselves. maybe they are meant to find happiness and peace of mind all on their own. others depend on companionship to get them through life going through one boyfriend or girlfriend after the next. Love is not that easy to obtain. I was told something like "you dont need to find a soul mate, you just need to find someone that doesnt annoy the heck out of you" Aint that the truth haha. Ironically that is harder than it would seem. Attitudes, behaviors, personalities. they clash together so often its hard for anyone to find someone they can be together with forever. forever is such a long time. forever is something that doesnt just go away. A person can say they will love you forever but thats never certain. People change their minds. its human nature. Things change. People part ways leaving each other behind only to find out later that they regret their decision. but do they really regret it or are they just lonely? once they find someone new dont they just move on? its a fairly simple circle that continues to go around and around for almost everyone. Love does not always mean forever, but when you find someone and it will be forever just the two of you, im pretty sure you will just know they are the one... if not this is a cruel world we live in. People never forget, though some may try, but love can fade as quickly as it comes under some circumstances. If you find it... hold on.